This is for someone in particular who needs to hear it:
It's okay to grieve for unfinished business. But, don't EVER think that it is in your fate to ever see the finish of any business that walked away from you knowing how you felt.
Sometimes unfinished business is actually finished -- no matter how your heart feels or for how long.
It is better to just write it off as loss. Not for yourself, but for the one that walked away.
Go, live, be and do. You will never forget, but you can't dwell on the pain. Channel it. Become who you were meant to be. Let it do what it is supposed to do and make you stronger for it...and then don't EVER allow the business to get in front of you again.
To do so is to lose more of who you thought you were, who you grew to be -- and who you thought they were.
And, sometimes the memories are just sweeter without realizing that you were wrong in your perception.
In the end, you will be right where you are. The business you wished you could finish will still walk away knowing how you feel. Nothing is changed, accept now there is fresh pain.
Just remember, real life is not a fairy tale. Not all endings are happy ones. Not all business is meant to be "finished" to your approval.
It's okay to grieve for unfinished business. But, don't EVER think that it is in your fate to ever see the finish of any business that walked away from you knowing how you felt.
Sometimes unfinished business is actually finished -- no matter how your heart feels or for how long.
It is better to just write it off as loss. Not for yourself, but for the one that walked away.
Go, live, be and do. You will never forget, but you can't dwell on the pain. Channel it. Become who you were meant to be. Let it do what it is supposed to do and make you stronger for it...and then don't EVER allow the business to get in front of you again.
To do so is to lose more of who you thought you were, who you grew to be -- and who you thought they were.
And, sometimes the memories are just sweeter without realizing that you were wrong in your perception.
In the end, you will be right where you are. The business you wished you could finish will still walk away knowing how you feel. Nothing is changed, accept now there is fresh pain.
Just remember, real life is not a fairy tale. Not all endings are happy ones. Not all business is meant to be "finished" to your approval.
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